For years I told my own children and students at school that
there is no such thing as a stupid question. I’ve changed my mind.
Too many times one of those aforementioned youngsters posed
the query, “Is this good enough?”
If they have to ask, the answer is always no.
OK—maybe that’s not a stupid
question, like “How much do you weigh?” But it’s certainly an annoying and
unnecessary question.
In the context of effort, “good enough” insinuates that
whatever “it” is could be better. “Good enough” usually means the inquisitor wants me to settle for something
less than his best.
Students asking if their paper is good enough are really
saying their penmanship could be neater and the story could be longer. My young son
and daughter asking if the results of their chores were good enough were telling
me the toilet could have been cleaner, the leaf bags could have been fuller, and that yes,
some of the bowls in the dishwasher were facing up, not down toward the water.
I’m not saying every result must be perfect. Perfectionism drives
people away and leaves the perfectionist frustrated. A 6-year-old cannot accomplish
what a 16-year-old can, nor should she be required to do so. But I am saying that every effort must be one’s
best. No half-hearted attempts.
Please don’t confuse this idea with the advertising world’s
attempt to make us buy bigger, more expensive products. Bigger is not always
better, and more is not always best.
But when it comes to
giving, sharing,
working and helping,
“good enough” short changes the whole process. Something
is missing.
In 2013 I want to give God my best, not my almost-best. Every
day He gives me 24 hours. Never once has He said, “Twenty will do.”
At creation, the Creator said, “Let there be light,” not “Let there
be just enough light to get by.”
And on His way to Calvary, Jesus didn’t pause, look up to
heaven and say, “Is this close enough?”
My best won’t be flawless in this new year because I am
human. But I don’t want to fall back on half-heartedness. Why offer a good-enough
effort when I can give the finest that I have?
Please visit this site to hear a most magnificent song of God's best for us, then just click on the video.
“… be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you
will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and
perfect will.” Romans 12:2 NIV
Nuts, I just used this phrase for myself today, as in never feeling good enough before (to do something). You've made me rethink this whole thing.
ReplyDeleteSo true, Lisa! Imagine - when God looks at His children, He never sees us as just "good enough."
ReplyDeleteDavalyn, you've changed my way of looking at the words "good enough." I'll be more careful in this new year, and strive to live to God's fullest requirement, and gifts, for me. Thanks. Great post.
ReplyDeleteA lovely post.
ReplyDeleteThought provoking post!!
ReplyDeleteThank you Caroline, Liz and Marianne.
ReplyDeleteVery good, Davalyn. So true.
ReplyDeleteExcellent post. The music lifted my day to heaven!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Rhonda and Dianne. Isn't that song just amazing?
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful post, Davalynn! I'm going to broadcast it a little!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Donna. Glad you enjoyed it.
DeleteInteresting. I still treasure my Mum telling me I only needed to be a good enough mother, not a perfect mother though. Sometimes it depends what the speaker means by good enough.
ReplyDeleteYes, Sheila, it does depend. Some people never feel "good enough" for God, but He makes us perfect by His sacrifice!
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